Be a helper

Pittsburgh's own Mr. Rogers has a few famous quotes, but the most famous might be this one:

“When I was a boy and I would see scary things in the news, my mother would say to me, ‘Look for the helpers. You will always find people who are helping.'"

When we're very anxious, it can be very tempting to focus all our attention on that anxiety.  Unfortunately, that can put us into a "worry spiral" that gets worse and worse. 

If you find yourself spiraling, try shifting your attention outward.  I'll share a lot of ideas for how to do this in the coming weeks. The first one is this:   Be a helper.

Are there small things you can do to brighten someone's day?  Don't put yourself at risk, but if you are in a low-risk group (for example, a younger adult in good health), maybe you can offer to run errands for elderly or at-risk neighbors who need to stay home.

If you have school-aged kids at home, why not include them?  See how many ways they can come up with for being a helper while staying safe. Writing cards, creating funny videos to send to older family members, and texting or FaceTiming friends, family, and neighbors can all be great ways for kids to be helpers, too.

More ideas to follow!  Be well.